Song meaning of Falling or flying by Jorja Smith

Ah, Jorja Smith, always taking us on a lyrical roller coaster ride. In "Falling or Flying," she starts off by telling us this ain't what our mother told us. Well, obviously, moms have been holding out on the good stuff because day and night are apparently different now. She challenges us to show her we want her and not play it safe, as if love is some kind of extreme sport. Then she hits us with a whole bunch of contradictions like not working if we're numb, not stopping if we love, and not learning if we don't hurt. It's like a confusing game of emotional Twister, and I don't know about you, but I always end up in a pretzel. She goes on to say she doesn't know where we are, but she's too busy being afraid to fall asleep to care, and she doesn't want us to take it easy on her. I mean, really, Jorja? Can't we just cozy up with some comfy blankets and have a good sleep while we figure out this falling and flying business? Overall, it's a song that leaves you questioning your existence, your love life, and the secret life lessons your mom never taught you. Stay awake, my friends, because you never know when you'll be falling or flying...or maybe both at the same time. The confusion is real.